There is no cookie-cutter way formula for grieving. You may go through times of shock, anger, denial, and sadness and then experience acceptance and the regaining of hope after the loss of your loved one. Everyone grieves differently because of how we are uniquely made by God. However, it does not honor your loved one if you give up on life. You can find comfort in the scriptures, the support of others, and talk to God about how you feel. (Isaiah 53:4)